Monday, January 7, 2019

How to have sex more safely in 4 simple steps


How to have sex more safely in 4 simple steps

Have you just started with a new method of contraception? Bravo! The same continues to use condoms.

Many of us have said, or heard a friend say, "welcome contraceptives, goodbye to condoms!" I understand the logic behind this, but as a doctor of young women, I worry. This is the reason: young women have the highest risk of accidental pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Double problem ...




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Lifestyles Snugger Fit Premium Lifestyles Latex Condoms Lubricated 72 condoms






A study in northern California showed that many young women (between 15 and 24 years old) had problems using condoms and contraceptives with hormones at the same time. The study looked at 1,000 young women who started using a new hormonal contraceptive method. At the beginning of the study, 36% of women used condoms regularly to protect themselves and 5% used condoms and contraceptives (ie, "double protection"). Initially, starting with a new contraceptive method inspired these women to double protection, but as the months went by, the women stopped using condoms, gave up their other contraceptives, or left both. After a year, most were still worried about becoming pregnant or getting an STI, but they did not use condoms or contraceptives. When life gets complicated or we are very busy, it can be easy to get distracted and suddenly find that - like many couples in the study - you are not using protection when you have sex. But the risks speak for themselves:

    Women between the ages of 15 and 24 have a 1 in 30 chance of getting a common STI, such as chlamydia or gonorrhea.

    Young women have a 1 in 20 chance of becoming pregnant because they have sex at any time during their menstrual period and a 1 in 4 probability near the time of ovulation.

And what can I do?

Luckily there are 4 steps to follow to double the protection:

    Talk, talk and talk about condoms. With your partner, with your friends, with whoever wants to listen. If your partner does not like to use them, find out why. Maybe you can solve the problem by looking for condoms made with different materials or with different textures. Or take it with you to your nearby clinic or medical appointment so they can talk with a health care provider about using condoms and contraceptives at the same time. Even if both were promised total fidelity now, some infections take time to manifest. This means that an infection of the past can now manifest itself in the relationship, even if both are faithful. Using condoms every time you have sex is the only way to reduce the chance of infection.

    Find the best contraceptive method for you. Try different methods until you find the one that best suits your body and lifestyle. Your health care provider can help you with this process, and make sure you remain protected even as you change to a new method.

    Keep using condoms Starting with a hormonal or long-acting contraceptive method helps prevent pregnancy, but you and your partner can also get an infection. Do not stop using condoms just because you started using contraceptives. Unless you are in a monogamous relationship for more than six months and both have been tested and ruled out the possibility of an STI, continue to use condoms.

    Do not leave contraceptives without talking to your provider or having an alternative plan. This is where many women get complicated. They used to use condoms, then they started with the pill, then they stopped using condoms and now they forget to take the pill so often that they decided to stop everything, they do not even use condoms again. To avoid frustration and being unprotected, ask your provider when you start with the method what to do if you decide that you no longer like it. I always tell my patients to let me know as soon as possible if they have questions or doubts about the method and are thinking about quitting. Often, side effects can be controlled or disappear over time; or we can find a method that is easier to use or that has fewer side effects. Beyond that, if you stop using contraception, always as a general rule start using condoms immediately and every time you have sex to prevent pregnancy until you find a better method.

In summary:


Double the protection! Use condoms and a highly effective contraceptive method to take charge of your reproductive health.

What are the risks of using an expired condom?


What are the risks of using an expired condom?

The condom expired puedce crack or break more easily.
Condoms are one of the  most popular contraceptive methods
since they not only create a physical barrier that protects against pregnancies
desired, but it also avoids contact and therefore
prevents possible Sexually Transmitted Infections, unlike
the contraceptive pill.




Lifestyles SKYN Condoms
Lifestyles SKYN Condoms







Like most products on the market, each batch of condoms
has an expiration date assigned. What happens when a condom
Do you pass this date?  As much as it is kept in the packaging and
open it does not show signs of deterioration, it is no longer recommended
use it Why?


This product usually manufactured from latex is subject to
a chemical process through which it comes into contact with various
substances (antibacterial products, antioxidants, flavorings,
dyes ...), and tests its resistance and flexibility. Are
precisely these essential characteristics so that the condom
those that may be affected once the
recommended period of time for its use, as well as  if it passes too much
time in places where they may be subject to friction or exposed to
high temperatures, such as the wallet or the glove compartment of the car.


The main risk that can occur if the condom is in some
of the above situations is the increase in the percentage of breakage:
e  The latex deteriorates little by little, the lubricant and the material dries
loses elasticity and resistance, so it is not prepared to
to withstand friction in the same way.  This possibility is what
increases the danger of STD transmission or cancels protection against
pregnancy since  if the condom breaks

the physical barrier that prevents the contact of fluids disappears
bodily


Even if it does not break completely, there is the possibility that
streaks appear that filter vaginal discharge or semen  (also
the contact with the precum is a risk). In addition, the
The fact that the material has been weakened can cause discomfort,
 irritations or rashes  in the genital area for both men and women
women.

Use of condoms


Use of condoms

Correct use of male condoms:

  •     Check the expiration date of the condom
  •     Use it from the beginning of the sexual relationship.
  •     Open the envelope carefully so that the condom does not break. Do not use cutting elements or open it with your teeth.
  •     Tighten the tip of the condom to remove air before resting on the erect penis because, if it is inflated, it may break during the relationship.
  •     Unroll it to the base of the penis, taking care that the tip is not inflated.
  •     Do not use Vaseline, oil or hand cream because these can damage the condom. Use "water-based" lubricants that are sold in pharmacies and are available in hospitals and health centers in the country and are recommended especially for anal sex.
  •     After ejaculation, remove the condom with the penis still erect. Be careful not to spill the semen.
  •     The condom should be used only once. Throw it in the trash, not the toilet.



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Trojan Nirvana Collection Condoms Variety Pack






Correct use of the female condom:

  •     Check the expiration date.
  •     Touch the container with your fingertips to verify that there is lubricant inside.
  •     I opened the wrapper carefully so it does not break
  •     Put yourself in a comfortable position: you can be lying down, sitting or as you feel better.
  •     Hold the condom with the open end hanging down and squeeze the closed end of the condom.
  •     While holding the closed end of the condom, with the other hand separate the lips of the vagina. Put the condom inside the vagina and release it.
  •     With your index finger inside the condom push the closed ring into the vagina as much as you can. The open ring will remain outside the vagina.
  •     Now the female condom is in a correct position to be able to use with your partner.
  •     Gently guide your partner's penis toward the opening of the condom with your hand to make sure it enters correctly.
  •     To remove the condom, turn the ring that is outside and gently remove it taking care not to spill the semen.
  •     I wrapped the condom in the container or in a tissue and threw it in the trash, not the toilet.

Proper use of the latex field:

  •     Check the expiration date.
  •     Touch the container with your fingertips to verify that there is lubricant inside.
  •     I opened the wrapper carefully and unrolled it.
  •     Remove the top edge with your thumbs.
  •     Break it along and abrilo.
  •     Stretch with the index finger and thumb to assemble the latex field.
  •     After using it, wrap it in a container or tissue and throw it in the trash, not the toilet.

Condoms for people allergic to latex:

There are some condoms in the country designed for people who are allergic to latex. The Ministry of Health of the Nation does not have or distribute this type of condom, but they are currently marketed and are for sale in pharmacies and kiosks. These condoms are not hypoallergenic, that is, they are not designed for any type of allergic reaction.

Friday, January 4, 2019

How to put a condom step by step


How to put a condom step by step

Sex should be fun, intimate and pleasurable, but also healthy. So knowing how to put a condom properly is very important, not only as a contraceptive method but also to protect us from the many sexually transmitted diseases that exist, such as chlamydia, human papillomavirus or HIV.




Lifestyles Skyn Large Non-Latex - Box Of 12
Lifestyles Skyn Large Non-Latex - Box Of 12






Learning to put a condom and use it correctly is the key to maintaining safe sex. That's why in Durex we explain, step by step, how to do it so you can enjoy each encounter concentrating only on pleasure.

How to put a condom in seven steps

Step 1

It sounds obvious, but before putting on the condom or even before starting the action, always check the expiration date on the package to ensure that it is not expired, because if it is the case, the protection of both will be compromised.

Once the job begins, and as soon as the penis begins to get hard, it is time to put on the condom .

Step 2

Carefully open the package by the edge of it without using the teeth or accessories as scissors. This is very important to avoid piercing the latex without realizing it, causing unwanted accidents.

While driving the condom, be careful with sharp nails, jewelry or teeth, best not to break it and delay the fun until you find a new one or, worse, realize that it is the last one you have.


Step 3

When you put the condom, keep in mind that the condom can only be unrolled in one direction, so you have to make sure it is in the correct position . The tip should face up, away from the tip of your penis and the edges of the condom should be rolled out. The condom should look like a little hat.

At this time you can apply some Durex water-based lubricant on the tip of the penis to make it slide better. It is not necessary to apply a large amount, just a drop to facilitate the work and get a more pleasant experience.

Place the condom on the head of the penis completely hard. You should make sure that it fits perfectly to your penis without bags, so it is important to wait until you have a full erection before placing it.



Step 4

Carefully grasp the tip of the condom between your index finger and your thumb using your fingertips and making sure to leave a space between your penis and the tip of the condom for the sperm. With the other hand, unroll the condom to the base of the penis.

If the condom does not unroll easily, it's probably because it's the other way around, if that happens to you, open a new condom and start over. It is important not to flip the condom and use it, because there may be pre-cum in the condom which would expose both of them to an unsafe situation.



Step 5

If you want to favor a softer penetration, you can rub a bit of Durex water-based lubricant on the outside of the condom. This step is recommended if you are not using a previously lubricated condom and, even if you choose one that is, using more lubricant increases sensitivity and helps prevent breakage .

You know how to put a condom , now that the action starts!

Step 6

If the condom is unrolled during sex, roll it back down, and if it comes out, you must remove the penis, recover the condom and put on a new one following the same steps as before.

Step 7

When you have finished, it is important that before removing the penis you hold the condom at the base while it is still erect and, later, remove your penis. In this way you ensure that there is no unwanted semen leakage from your partner.

You can remove the condom when the penis is completely out. Finally, tie the condom so that the contents do not come out, then wrap it in paper and throw it in the wastebasket.

How to use a condom


There are many reasons to use the condom in every sexual encounter. And now that you know how to put a condom there are no excuses, practice pleasurable and safe sex and enjoy while both are protected.

The big lie of the condom industry is just what we have most believed


The big lie of the condom industry is just what we have most believed

Who will talk bad about condoms? In the popular imagination, condoms are something like the Night Watch of contraception; courageous soldiers guarding the Wall and preventing, even with their lives, white walkers from entering the fertile lands of the south.

And, hey, how it bothers me. I do not say that condoms are not a revolutionary invention: if we have been inserting penises in cases since 1855, it is for very good reasons. What I'm saying is that drawing the condom as the great contraceptive method is a mistake . Among other things, because they are not.




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Atlas True Fit Condoms: 100-Pack of Condoms






Put it on, put it on him

Not knowing how the condom is going is not something of millennials. It is something inherent to sex education campaigns of recent decades. There is a very famous scene in Friends in which, finally, Ross discovers that condoms are not 100% effective .

I imagine a lot of people saying "What? 97% percent?" while they watched the chapter in their house. And worst of all, the really bad thing is that it's not true either. No, condoms are not effective 97 percent of the time .

Do you know why? Because we who practice sex are, until proven otherwise, human beings. And human beings (especially when we go to the eyebrows of dopamine, oxytocin and adrenaline) make mistakes . Errors the size of a grand piano, many times.

Therefore, when we look at contraceptive methods we have to study, we always work with two numbers: the one of the 'effectiveness' perfect and the one of the 'effectiveness' of habitual use . When we talk about the fact that the condom has an effectiveness of 97 or 98% we are talking about its effectiveness of perfect use. That is, if we did everything with the precision and reliability of a Swiss watch, in 2 of every 100 uses there would be a pregnancy.

The terrible (and very comforting) truth of the condom

The problem is that ideal use only occurs in the house of the jelly, street of the lollipop . We know this in good faith: systematic evaluations of contraceptive methods are carried out every so often. Basically, a hundred women are taken at random and monitored while using a particular contraceptive method for one year.

The result is that the condom, in its actual use, has a Pearl Index between 15 and 18 . That is, between 15 and 18 out of every 100 women who opt for this contraceptive method will become pregnant.

Condoms

Condoms that slip off the penis after the ejaculate; condoms that are broken by misuse or damage when removed from the package; prophylactic in poor conditions after languishing for months in a portfolio or that are easily degraded by undesirable products. The failure of this contraceptive method, such as being in Aristotle , "is said in many ways." But the result is the same, the normal use of condoms in an industrialized society shows rates close to 20 percent .

I go further. Although we are tired of repeating that the 'reverse' is a bad contraceptive method their rates are not as bad as we might expect : the perfect use is at an index of 4 (only two more than the condom) and the usual use is between 22 and 27. Much closer to the condom indices than the rates of not using any contraceptive method (which is around 85).

When fears make us wrong

Do you know what happens? I know this is unpopular, but the truth is that condoms are not a great contraceptive method . You only have to see other methods to prove it: Progestogen implants have a usual Pearl Index of 0.05 and the IUD, although it can fall, has a 0.8. The condom is so popular because it is quite effective, it is cheap, it is easy to use, it does not usually have side effects and, above all, because it is a barrier method.

That is, well used, it is essential to prevent sexually transmitted diseases . In fact, by eliminating abstinence, it is probably the most effective method against STDs. And we say little. When you work with young people , you usually come across the idea that the condom is good for not getting pregnant and that is a very big problem.

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That idea is what makes women pressured to consume the contraceptive pill or the one that has historically homosexual relationships have had higher than average risk rates. When we face sex, we focus on reducing the risk of pregnancy while we completely pass the risk of disease.

That is to say, the fucking reality is that we are more afraid of getting pregnant than of catching a sexually transmitted disease . And that, consciously or unconsciously, is causing us to use strategies to promote safe sex that over time turn against us.

The "without-condom", the "is-not-sorry-the-same", the "for-a-time-no-happens-nothing" live from that confusion: that the important thing is pregnancy. And not. So yes, put it on, put it on. But let it be for the right reason.




How does a male condom work?

Condoms create a physical barrier, stop the sperm from reaching the egg to prevent fertilization. If used correctly it has a 98% effectiveness. This means that only two out of every 100 women will get pregnant in a year. A condom should not be used more than once. The couple must use a new one every time they have sex.

It is important to know that lubricants can make latex condoms less effective, but it is safe to use them with condoms made of polyurethane or polyisoprene. Water-based lubricants are the safest, are available in pharmacies and sexual health clinics, can be used with all condoms, including latex.

Some male condoms come with spermicide. Spermicide is a chemical that kills sperm in the vagina and prevents sperm from entering the cervix. These condoms with spermicide have been slowly eliminating, research has found that a spermicide called Nonoxynol 9 does not protect against STIs like Chlamydia and HIV, and may even increase the risk of infection. Nonoxynol 9 can also cause vaginal irritation for some women, which can increase susceptibility to infections. may also cause vaginal irritation for some women, which can increase their susceptibility to infections. It is best to avoid the use of condoms lubricated with spermicides, or spermicide as an additional lubricant.

Male Condom


Male Condom

Before you and your partner decide on the contraceptive method they will use, it is very important to consult a doctor

Definition

The condom or condom is a barrier contraceptive method, manufactured with a material that covers the penis and prevents the product of pre-ejaculation and ejaculation (semen) from entering the vagina. The ejaculated semen accumulates inside the condom. This prevents the sperm from joining with the ovum, causing an unwanted pregnancy.

The condom covering the penis provides (in addition) a protection of approximately 97% in the transmission of some sexually transmitted diseases that are acquired through vaginal, oral and anal sex.




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Trojan Non-Lub Latex Condoms, Enz 12 ct - 4pk






The condom prevents the following diseases:

  •     Chlamydia
  •     Chancre
  •     Gonorrhea
  •     Syphilis
  •     Trichomoniasis
  •     Hepatitis B
  •     HIV AIDS

Male condoms can NOT prevent sexually transmitted diseases that are acquired by skin-to-skin contact, since the condom does not cover infected areas, for example, external genitalia such as the human papillomavirus. and genital herpes.
What are condoms made of? 

Condoms are made of materials:

  •     of natural origin like latex,
  •     of synthetic origin such as polyurethane, or polyisoprene (the best alternative for people allergic to latex).
  •     of animal origin such as those made of lambskin, the latter DO NOT offer protection against sexually transmitted diseases.

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As they are?

It is a transparent or semi-transparent sheath adhered at the open end to an elastic ring, the closed end has a small reservoir for semen. For sale in the market, they come in small envelopes sealed and coated inside a thin layer of aluminum that protects the material from which they are made.

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Condoms always have an expiration date (since latex is degraded over time, they should not be used after the date noted on the envelope).

The condom comes rolled up and in different colors, some come dry, others lubricated to facilitate its placement and reduce the chances of the condom breaking when you put it on and others contain , in addition, a spermicide (a chemical that kills or immobilizes the sperm).

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The raw material with which it is made is subjected to electronic inspection to detect tiny punctures or lack of uniformity in the thickness of the material.

Male condoms can vary greatly in color, size and amount of lubrication or spermicide.

How do condoms protect?

  Male condoms are considered a method of barrier protection because they prevent sperm from reaching the egg by creating a barrier between them.

Condoms, when used correctly - during vaginal, anal or oral sex - also protect against sexually transmitted infections.

It is important that the penis does not make contact with the vagina before the condom is put on. This is because semen can leave the penis before it has fully ejaculated (pre-ejaculation).

How and at what time should I place the condom?

The condom should be placed when the penis is erected and before any intimate contact and left until the end of the sexual relationship.

Open the package with the fingertips. Do not use teeth, nails or scissors because you can break it.

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  •     Take out the condom. Look for which side unrolls, press the tip of the condom to remove air and space to receive the semen. If you do not, the condom can break. Make sure you have the right side of the condom on top.
  •     Without releasing the tip of the condom, place it on the head of the penis when it is erect.
  •     With the other hand unwind the condom towards the base of the penis until it is completely covered.
  •     The small empty space that remained on the tip, will work as a small bag that will store the secreted liquid.
  •     Never use a double condom, since the friction of both can cause one or both condoms to break or both to slip.

To remove it

  1.     After ejaculation, you must remove the penis before losing the erection making sure to hold the condom from the base to prevent it from slipping and its contents falling into your partner.
  2.     The condom should be discarded in the garbage bag, knotting it so that the secretions stay inside, please do not throw it into the toilet because they cover the drain pipe.
  3.     When finished, the penis should not touch the vagina again. If you have sex again, it will be necessary to use a new condom.
  4.     If the condom broke, your partner should know and they should go to the doctor

The condom should only be used once, so washing it so that it can be used again is not recommended, as it loses its lubrication and its safety in terms of contraception and protection against diseases.

EYE! The penis can have lesions in which there can be presence of bacteria that cause sexually transmitted diseases, or emit secretions before ejaculation that can also contain sperm capable of fertilizing the ovule.  

  •     Using a condom is not a sign of distrust, but a way to be responsible and take care of yourself.
  •     Talk to your partner about condom use before having sex.
  •     Always have the condom on hand.
  •     Putting the condom on the couple can be part of the sexual relationship. This is not an interruption of it.
  •     If you have not used condoms before, learn to put it on before sex.

Now you know more about the condom, take care of your health and that of your partner, because if from ancient times there was someone who worried about the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, now there are more reasons to do so.

Use of lubricant

  Lubrication is the "moisture" that facilitates entering and leaving the vagina during sex. If there is not enough lubrication, there is a greater chance that the condom will break.

Condoms are already lubricated for easy use, but you may want to add more. This is particularly important in anal sex to reduce the chance of the condom breaking.

Any lubricant can be used when the condom is NOT latex. In this case, do not use oil-based lubricants such as oil or body cream, petroleum jelly or petroleum jelly because the latex is damaged and the condom can break.


With whom should they be used?

With everything ... world!

Since you can not determine at a glance when a person has an STD or is a carrier of the virus that causes AIDS, it is best to use the condom every time you have a sexual relationship. Many things about sex are often difficult. It is not easy to tell you that you want to use a condom, especially when you are about to have sex.

However, you must insist or even condition the relationship to the use of condoms. How do you tell the couple? Your health or your life may depend on it!

What is the effectiveness of condoms?

  It is important to know the effectiveness of the contraceptive method that you and your partner decide to use. Like all contraceptive methods, the effectiveness of the condom depends on its correct use.

The condom can fail for three reasons and those are, in order of frequency:

  •     inconstant use (not used in all sexual relationships);
  •     incorrect use (it is not used from the beginning until the end of the sexual relationship or the steps that help to avoid failures are taken care of); Y
  •     by sliding (that the condom is completely removed from the penis) and / or rupture during intercourse or when withdrawing the penis. The sliding and / or rupture can occur by making some mistake when placing it and, to a lesser extent, by the thickness of the penis or by the size of the condom in relation to it.

If you do not use it constantly, you do not follow the instructions, you do not have money to buy it, you are afraid to use it or you do not know how to put it on, you think that the sensitivity will be different or your partner will be offended, so this method will not be effective.

We insist, every time you use it, it is very important that you keep in mind:

  •     The expiration date that is not expired. Each package has a date written: MFG: Date of manufacture, lasts five years from this date. CAD or EXP: Expiration date
  •     Notice that the packaging is not broken and that when pressed it forms an air pocket
  •     To keep their effectiveness you should keep them in a cool and dry place, please do not bring them in the glove compartment of your car or you are walking for weeks in the back pocket of your pants or in your wallet.
  •     Remove them from the keys or sharp objects.
  •         If you store them in a hot place, their elasticity is damaged and it is perforated or when placing it or when removing it, it breaks

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    Never use lubricants based on oils or petrolatums, such as Vaseline, baby oils or beauty creams, as they damage the latex and cause rupture due to loss of elasticity.

The best condom is the one you have and that is used correctly. If the condom breaks is because you did not use it correctly or because you did not keep it in the right conditions

Who can use a condom?

  Most men can use the condom, however, it is possible that, for some, it is not the best contraceptive method.

When the male has difficulty retaining an erection, it is likely that he can not use it because with the male condom the penis must be erect when placed to prevent the ejaculated semen from getting out of the condom or the same condom to slip and come out.

Advantages of condom use

It does not produce side effects, it is not expensive, it is bought in pharmacies and self-service stores, it is easy to use, it does not require a prescription.

Reduces the risk of transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including HIV.

Disadvantages

Some couples dislike its use, they think that it does not produce the same pleasant sensation as when the condom is not used.

  •     It can interrupt the spontaneity of the sexual relationship.
  •     There are people who are allergic to latex: Most condoms include among the components of latex thimerosal (as a preservative), to which some men are allergic.
  •     Some women develop vaginal irritation caused by the spermicide that the condom contains.
  •     It is not as effective when not used properly.
  •     In some cases it reduces the masculine sensation.
  •     When the condom is used, the man has to leave the vagina before the erection is over and hold the condom firmly so that it does not slip and come out.

What is latex?

Latex is a milky fluid produced by the rubber tree ( Hevea brasiliensis ). Using different methods, latex can be processed to make a wide variety of products such as gloves and balloons. Many homemade products contain latex, such as:

  •     Balloons
  •     Rubber toys
  •     Individual pacifiers and pacifiers for baby bottles
  •     Elastic rubbers
  •     Tape and adhesive bandages
  •     Diapers and sanitary napkins
  •     Condoms

What is latex allergy?

The proteins in natural latex can cause an allergic reaction in some people. The thin, elastic rubber in gloves, condoms and balloons has a high protein content. It causes more allergic reactions than products made of hard rubber like the tires of cars .

What are the symptoms of latex allergy?

The allergy to latex products can manifest itself as a simple dermatitis (itchy rash, redness, blistering, peeling) or as a more serious reaction called anaphylaxis.

The severity of the immediate reaction depends on the degree of sensitivity of the person and the amount of latex allergen to which he was exposed.

What is Anaphylaxis? : It is a serious allergic reaction that can affect the whole body. It can cause shortness of breath, loss of consciousness and even death. Anaphylaxis is a medical emergency situation that requires immediate medical treatment and, later, the attention of an allergy specialist.

Reactions usually begin within minutes of contact, but can be delayed. Sometimes the symptoms are resolved, only to return or progress a few hours later.

A person sensitive to latex can also have an allergic reaction capable of threatening his life without any sign or warning signal.

If you or your partner check that the condom causes some kind of problems, you should consult with the gynecologist or urologist.

Remember:

  •     The allergy to latex and spermicide are a fact
  •     It is recommended not to insist with this type of condoms if it causes some type of irritation in the genital region of both.
  •     If the woman already has some irritation, it is sure that the condom will increase that problem either due to latex or spermicide.
  •     The man with irritations on the glans, will notice how they increase, especially by rubbing the penis on the latex.

You should consult with your doctor to leave doubts and receive proper guidance.

Frequent questions
Does condom use produce fungi?

No. However, although it is rare, latex condoms can cause reaction in people who are allergic to latex and there are other people who are allergic to the lubricant that have certain brands of condoms. If the discomfort is frequent you should consult the doctor.

Why do some people say that "with the condom you do not feel the same" when having sex?

This is a misconception that has spread and is used as an excuse to not use the condom. The pleasure during the relationship depends on the sexual desire, the attraction towards the other person, the relationship of couple, the erotic games, of diminishing the risks of pregnancy and infections and of if the decision was made separately.

To avoid these false beliefs in the market are condoms of flavors, textures and colors, which contribute to the stimulation at the time of sexual intercourse.

How effective is the condom to avoid STDs?

The answer to this depends on the type of condom used. The latex ones are excellent, the polyurethane ones have a good protection but they are more delicate. Those in lambskin do NOT protect against STDs.

And the answer also depends on what type of STDs since some can get infected in sexual activity in different ways. They are effective in preventing STDs that travel in body fluids such as HIV, hepatitis, chlamydia and gonorrhea. But its effectiveness is almost zero in terms of STDs caused by organisms living in the wounds of the genitals such as syphilis, herpes, papilloma, which can pass from one person to another with simple skin-to-skin contact.

The most important thing is that the effectiveness of the condom for the prevention of STD depends first of all if you kept it in the correct way and if you use it always well.

Can the condom cause impotence and loss of erection?

There is no evidence that establishes that the use of the condom causes impotence, this is caused by different reasons: emotional and physiological.

If it is hard for you to maintain an erection when you pause to place the condom, try to have your partner put it on so that you do not interrupt the interaction and can make it part of the sexual act.

Does the condom cause vaginal dryness?

The condom can not cause vaginal dryness. If for any reason the woman suffers from dryness in the vagina, a prophylactic with lubricant can remedy the discomfort.

In addition, as mentioned above if the condom is lubricated before penetration this problem is fixed and the feeling of pleasure increases for both.

Can the condom stay inside the woman's vagina?

The United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) states that only rarely can a male condom get completely out of the penis. In case this happened it stays in the vagina of the woman and can be easily removed.

It is not possible that it goes beyond the vagina. The entrance to the cervix is ​​at the bottom of the vagina; It is very far away and it is very small. It is not possible for a condom to go beyond the vagina.

I can not trust the effectiveness of the condom, they break easily

When the condom is used correctly and consistently, it protects 98 percent of a pregnancy. This percentage is not better or worse than most contraceptive methods. Absolute abstinence is the only 100 percent effective method of contraception.

So that it does not break you have to put it correctly, use lubricant, discard it after using it (it can only be used once).

Ask me to use a condom ... does that mean that my partner does not trust me?

That your partner asks you to use a condom only means that he cares about your health and yours. It is not a reflection of the lack of confidence that you have, on the contrary, it relies on you enough to ask for it.

The condom is too small

This sounds more like an excuse than a myth. If you do not fit the condom, try it until you can find your condom size.

Does the condom promote infidelity and promiscuity?

The selection of a contraceptive method does not affect the sexual behaviors of individuals. The method you choose will not affect the actions you take. If you are a faithful person even if you use a condom you will remain faithful and monogamous.

Ten steps to use the condom correctly


Ten steps to use the condom correctly

It is the most used contraceptive method but it is not too much to know how it should be placed to prevent pregnancies and avoid contracting STDs .

The use of condoms today is practically everyday, is the method of contraception that in addition to preventing pregnancy, reduces the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), such as HIV.




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LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Condom - 50 Condoms (50 Pack)






However, do we know how it should be used correctly?

Here are the steps to follow to use it in the right way:

1. Check the expiration date of the condom. Sometimes, with the rush we forget to check if the condom is in good condition, over time the condom loses its properties and therefore its effectiveness is affected. Some only have the date of manufacture, in that case the condom can be used up to four years after its production.

2. Open the condom packet around a corner, being careful not to tear it with nails or teeth.

3. Place the rolled condom on the tip of the erect penis, and if the condom does not have a reserve tip, squeeze the tip of the condom enough to leave an inch of space for the semen or lubricant to settle there. If the man is not circumcised, then you have to retract the foreskin before unwinding the condom.

4. Now gently unwind the condom along the penis to the base.

5. Smooth any air bubbles, as these can sometimes cause the condom to break.

6. If you need extra lubrication, it should be applied outside the condom. It is recommended that you use a water based latex condom (remember that there is also polyurethane or lamb skin - natural), because those made with oil (Vaseline, baby oils, body lotions) can break the plastic.

7. After ejaculation, to remove it, even with the erect penis, you must hold the condom firmly from the base to prevent the release of semen.

8. When leaving, a knot must be made. You can wrap it in paper and then throw it away in the trash, it is important not to throw it into the toilet, as they are harmful to the environment.

9. You should always use a new condom in every sexual relationship or erotic game.

10. Remember that currently in the market offers a wide variety of condoms, with textures and styles to choose from, you should only know what you want.

15 mistakes you make when using a condom


15 mistakes you make when using a condom

These errors are surprisingly common and completely nullify the purpose of using the balloon.

At this point of the game, putting on a condom must be totally stored in your muscle memory, but are you doing it right? Sadly, a recent study suggests that it may not.

Researchers at Indiana University analyzed 50 studies on condom use and, after crossing them with data collected over 16 years, found a large list of errors. Could you be committing any of them? Check out the 15 things that couples are doing wrong, by equipping themselves to have a good time.




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Okamoto Crown Condoms 100ea pack






LATE USE

According to multiple studies, between 17 and 51.1 percent of people reported wearing the condom after they started penetration. (Which does not make sense, in the case of protection against sexually transmitted diseases).

EARLY REMOVAL

Between 13.6 and 44.7 percent of respondents reported having removed the condom before finishing penetration.

COMPLETELY DEVELOP THE CONDOM BEFORE PLACING IT

Between 2.1 and 25.3 percent of people admitted to having completely unwrapped the condom before placing it. What does not seem more difficult in that way?

DO NOT LEAVE SPACE AT THE TIP

Between 24.3 and 45.7 percent of respondents reported forgetting to leave room for semen at the tip of the condom .

DO NOT REMOVE THE AIR

When they remembered their last sexual encounter, 48.1 percent of the women and 41.6 percent of the men indicated that they did not remove the air from the tip before using it.

WRONG FROM SIDE

Between 4 and 30.4 percent of the participants reported starting to unroll the condom on the opposite side and turning it over to continue using it on the right side. This is not good, because you can expose your partner to your preseminal fluid, which can leave her pregnant. (No, that was not just a lie to scare you in high school).

DO NOT DEVELOP IT COMPLETELY

11.2 percent of women and 8.8 percent of men admitted to starting penetration before they had completely unwrapped the condom .

EXHIBIT IT TO SHARP OBJECTS

Between 2.1 and 11.2 percent of the participants opened the condom wrapper with sharp objects. The problem: if it is sharp enough to open the package, it is also sharp enough to damage the condom . (We would not have to say it).

DO NOT REVIEW FOR POSSIBLE SAFETY FAILURES

When the condom was opened, 82.7 percent of the women and 74.5 percent of the men indicated that they did not check that it was not damaged before placing it. What should you look for? Make sure the wrap is not battered or torn, check the expiration date (YES, condoms expire) and do not forget to observe well to detect imperfections while unrolling it.

LACK OF LUBRICANT

Between 16 and 25.8 percent of people said they have used condoms without lubricant. What is the problem? If your sex sessions are long, the condom may break if you do not have enough lubricant.

LUBRICATION PROBLEMS

3.2 percent of women and 4.7 percent of men reported using oil-based lubricants with a latex condom . This weakens the lates and makes it more fragile. Use a water-based lubricant.

INCORRECT RETIREMENT

About 31 percent of men and 27 percent of women indicated that it took them to properly remove the condom after ejaculation.

REUSE A CONDOM (IS IT SERIOUS?)

Between 1.4 and 3.3 percent of respondents said they had refused a minimum condom once during a sexual encounter. Gross!

INCORRECT STORAGE

Between 3.3 and 19.1 percent of people in the studies have stored their condoms in conditions that do not meet the manufacturer's recommendations. Avoid exposing them directly to the sun's rays or storing them in your wallet, both can degrade the latex.

NEVER HAVE USED IT

In fact, this is not part of the study, we add it. Why? Simple. When misused, the chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease or getting your partner pregnant increase; by not using it, much more.

How to Use the Condom - Male Preservative


How to Use the Condom - Male Preservative

What is the condom?

The male condom, popularly known as a condom, is the most widely used method of contraception in the world.

The condom is a barrier contraceptive, that is, it prevents the penile and vaginal secretions from coming into contact. In this way, there is possibility of prevention not only of pregnancy, but also of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Other methods such as oral contraceptives and the IUD, for example, barely prevent pregnancy, without acting against the risk of STDs.




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Okamoto Usa 004 Aloe Almost Nothing Condom, 10 Count






The condom is usually made of latex or polyurethane. Usually, a condom is 19 cm long, 5 cm wide and 0.07 mm thick. There are models with variations in the three measurements. In addition to the sizes, condoms can vary in shape, color, smell, taste, lubrication and presence or not of spermicide.

All these described variations hardly affect the comfort of the user; none of these factors, including the spermicide, influences the effectiveness of the condom. Actually, the condom with spermicide is not more effective than the condom without spermicide, and rather the latter is related to the appearance of urinary infections (cystitis) in couples. Currently, we always indicate condoms without spermicides.

Efficacy of male condom

The effectiveness of the condom must be evaluated in two ways:

  •     Efficacy against pregnancy.
  •     Efficacy against STDs.

Regardless of the mode of evaluation, the effectiveness of the condom is directly related to its correct use. Below we will show the correct way to place and use the condom.

1. Efficacy against pregnancy

When used correctly, the condom is 98% effective against pregnancy. When it is used intuitively, that is, placed without major orientation or care, the efficiency drops to 85%.

2. Effectiveness against ETS

The correct use of the condom is currently the main weapon in the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. Its effectiveness varies from one disease to another, without being considered 100% efficient in any case. Therefore, in addition to correct use, it is very important that the individual avoid risky behaviors, such as having multiple sexual partners.

The male condom is extremely efficient against the transmission of the HIV virus (read: HIV TESTING TEST ). The risk of transmitting the virus during a single sexual relationship with a condom, placed and used correctly, is practically nil.

Cases of transmission usually occur in those couples that are serologically discordant, that is, HIV positive and HIV negative, who have frequent sexual intercourse. Still, the condom is an excellent method of protection. A work carried out in 2001 accompanied 587 of these couples and showed that in just eleven of them the partner ended up infected. Look, we're talking about people who have had frequent sex with infected partners.

The condom is also efficient in preventing other STDs, however, with lower success rates than against HIV. Among the STDs that present a significant reduction in transmission, we can mention:

  •     Gonorrhea
  •     Chlamydia
  •     Syphilis
  •     Genital herpes
  •     HPV .
  •     Hepatitis B

The most important thing is to understand that the condom is a powerful weapon against the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, however, it is not infallible and in many cases its performance is far from ideal.

If on the one hand the role of some religious groups contrary to the use can be considered irresponsible, on the other, campaigns for the promotion of the condom without due clarification can encourage risk behaviors, which could reduce the beneficial effects of frequent use of the condom.

Therefore, to reinforce, the condom should be used in any sexual relationship in which there is no reproductive intention, because it significantly reduces the risk of disease transmission; nevertheless, a behavior of recurrent risk diminishes its effectiveness, exposing the individual to risks.

Pros and cons

Pros:

  •     It is an immediately reversible method of contraception.
  •     Protects against pregnancy and STDs.
  •     It is cheap, easily accessible and does not require a doctor's prescription.
  •     It is simple to use.
  •     It can be loaded by men and women.
  •     There are practically no adverse reactions to its use.
  •     Helps control premature ejaculation.

Cons:

  •     Some men complain of loss of penis sensitivity.
  •     Some men lose their erection when there is an interruption of the sexual act at the time of placing the condom.
  •     The use of the condom needs the approval of the couple.
  •     Its use can lead to the false impression of complete protection and without failures.
  •     Some women are embarrassed to carry condoms for fear of being labeled as promiscuous.
  •     Some religions do not allow its use.

How to use the condom

For the male condom to be an effective method of birth control and / or disease transmission, it is only necessary to use it correctly. Despite being a very simple and practically intuitive method, some rules must be respected. Some of the suggestions below may seem obvious, but they are among the main causes of misuse.

Buy condoms in authorized locations, such as pharmacies and automatic machines. Avoid buying them from street vendors or in places where storage is not adequate. In some countries, the presence of a quality seal must be taken into account. Another important point is the expiration date of the product; If the wrapping is damaged, reject the condom.

The condom should be stored in cool, not humid places, and away from the sun's rays. The car is not a good place to store them, unless it is always parked in covered places. In the wallet or wallet, the maximum time is one month. Exposure to heat damages the latex, which favors breakage.

The condom is a single-use, disposable product. Even if the second time is between the same people, the condom can not be reused.

Just open the wrap of the condom at the time of placing it. Be careful to tear it, avoid cutting materials when opening it.

To reduce the risk of STDs, the condom must be placed before there is any contact between the genitals, even if there is still no intention of penetration.

The condom should only be placed when the penis is erect.

How to put the condom

With the erect penis, place the condom on the glans (head of the penis) holding the receiving tip to prevent it from being full of air.

Unroll it to the base of the penis. If the condom does not unwind easily it is because it is being placed on the opposite side. Change the side and start the process again.

If it is placed correctly, the receiving tip of the condom will be "wrinkled", without air, on the tip of the penis.

The condom should always be unrolled as much as possible, in order to stay just enough at the base of the penis.

Condoms are already lubricated. Avoid adding any other lubricant product, as it may damage the latex. If you need more lubrication, use only water-based lubricants with KY®.

Do not try to place the condom on a non-erect penis. It will be loose and run the risk of falling off during the sexual act.

Once you have ejaculated, finish the penetration before the penis is flaccid, because at that moment the condom can be loose, allowing the sperm to run down the sides. There is also a risk of the condom falling off and remaining inside the vagina.

The condom should be changed whenever there is a change from anal sex to vaginal sex.

After removing it, a knot should be made at the base of the condom and placed in a trash can. Do not throw the condom inside the toilet.

What if the condom breaks?

Despite being a rare case, improper use or storage of the condom can eventually cause breakage or emptying of the condom. If the condom bursts before ejaculation, remove the penis, wash it with soap and water (the same for the vagina) and change the condom if you want to restart the sexual act. If this is done immediately, the risk of pregnancy and disease transmission is very low. Attention: women should avoid vaginal douching when washing.

If the condom breaks after or during ejaculation, the penis should be removed immediately and both genitals should be washed. To avoid pregnancy, contact your gynecologist for guidance on emergency contraception, such as the morning after pill (read: PILL OF THE DAY AFTER ). Whenever there is contact between mucous membranes and genital secretions there is a risk of STD transmission. If you had a problem with the condom and you suspect that your partner may have a venereal disease, look for a doctor to receive guidance on how to proceed.

How to use a condom?


How to use a condom?

The condom

The condom is the best way to protect against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and unwanted pregnancy. Condoms are a barrier method of contraception (they prevent the passage of the semen with a barrier) made of a very thin layer of rubber or plastic latex called polyurethane.




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Kimono Special Condoms - 100 Condoms







Condoms are available free of charge in some countries in ::

  •     Contraceptive clinics (sometimes called family planning clinics)
  •     Sexual health or genito-urinary medicine clinics
  •     In some general practice clinics


You can also buy condoms from:

  •     Shops
  •     Pharmacies
  •     Supermarkets
  •     Garages
  •     Dispensing machines in some public toilets

When purchasing condoms, make sure they carry the British Standards Institution (BSI) Kitemark, or the European CE symbol as proof of quality ( only in European countries ).

This means that they have been tested for the required safety standards. Also, make sure that the expiration date is clearly visible on the package.

Types of condoms

There are two basic types of condoms available in most countries: condoms to be used by men and the facts to be used by women.

The female condom is sometimes called a Femidom, since Femidom is its brand in the United Kingdom (England).

Correct use of the male condom


During sex, male condoms are used on the penis to prevent semen (sperm) from entering the woman's vagina when the man ejaculates (comes, ends) or to protect against sexually transmitted diseases in sexual relationships whether heterosexuals or homosexuals.

The condom should be worn when the penis is erect (hard) and before it comes in contact with the body of your partner.

To use a male condom correctly, follow these steps:

  •     Carefully open the package where the condom is wrapped, being careful not to tear the condom when opening the package (open it by the edge preferably).
  •     Keep the tip of the condom between the index finger and the thumb to make sure it is put in the correct position, and that there is no air trapped inside (the condom can break, there is air trapped inside the tip).
  •     Place the condom on the tip of the penis, always holding the tip of the condom between the index finger and the thumb.
  •     Then roll the condom down on the length of the erect (hard) penis, it is important to place it with the penis erect and not flaccid (soft) as it may be misplaced and facilitate its rupture.
  •     If the condom does not unwind, it is probably the other way around, in this case you should start over with a new condom since there may be sperm in the condom that I try to put upside down.
  •     Make sure the condom stays in place while you are having sex. If you fall, you must stop and put on a new one to avoid the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy or the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.
  •     After ejaculation (when the man has arrived / finished) and while the penis is still hard, hold the condom in place and carefully remove the penis from the partner's body.
  •     The condom should only be removed from the penis when there is no more contact with the body of your partner to prevent the semen from coming into contact with the vagina.
  •     Wrap the used condom in a tissue and put it in the trash. Condoms should never be flushed down the toilet , as they can clog the toilet and can cause harm to the environment.

Lubricants

If you use a lubricant during sexual intercourse, make sure it is water based. Petroleum-based lubricants, such as Vaseline, certain lotions, or baby oil, can damage and weaken latex condoms, increasing the likelihood that they will break.

Remember when using condoms you should only use water based lubricants for safety.
What to do if your condom breaks?

If the condom breaks while you have sex, you should visit your nearest doctor or clinic as soon as possible if there is a risk of pregnancy.

Emergency contraception , such as the emergency pill ( morning after pill ) or the intrauterine device (IUD) can be used to prevent pregnancy.

Emergency contraception is available free of charge in contraceptive clinics in countries where it is freely offered, including by physicians who offer contraceptive services.

How to use condoms correctly?


How to use condoms correctly?

Condoms, also called condoms, are placed on the penis during intercourse . They are usually made of latex or polyurethane and take the shape of the penis. The use of this method of contraception prevents pregnancy and reduces the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) . You can find different styles, shapes and textures . They can be lubricated or not and some have spermicides, although the use of the latter is not recommended.




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Trojan Supra Bareskin Lubricated Condoms 6 Ea Pack of 5






In order to avoid damaging the condoms, they must be stored in places that are not too hot or cold and away from sharp elements or rough surfaces that can tear them.

The condoms protect from pregnancy because they prevent the semen from passing into the woman's vagina . So if the sperm that are in the semen can not reach the woman's egg, pregnancy can not occur.

By covering the penis, the semen remains out of contact with the vagina, anus or mouth, so condoms also reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

Do they work?

Effectiveness is a common concern and it is important to take it into account when choosing a contraceptive method.

Like all other contraceptive methods, condoms are more effective when used correctly.
Each year, 2 out of every 100 women become pregnant using condoms correctly. And 18 out of 100 women when they are not always used correctly (2).

condoms

Condoms also reduce the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases , including the following:

  •     HIV
  •     Chlamydia
  •     Gonorrhea
  •     Hepatitis B
  •     Herpes
  •     Syphilis
  •     Pelvic inflammatory disease

They're safe?

Almost everyone can use condoms safely. However, there are people allergic to latex who must use polyurethane condoms.

Benefits

Condoms are easy and safe to use , but they also have other benefits; Among them are the following:

condoms

  •     They help prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
  •     They are cheap and can be easily obtained.
  •     They are lightweight and disposable.
  •     They do not require a prescription.
  •     It can help improve premature ejaculation.
  •     The man can have the penis erect for a longer time .
  •     It can be part of the sexual game, since in the market you can find different textures, colors and even flavors.
  •     They can be used with other contraceptive methods to prevent pregnancy.
  •     Some men and women report having better sex when they use condoms . They do not worry about unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases and concentrate on their sexual pleasure.
  •     Women are more likely to get STDs , so it is important to use condoms whenever there is a risk of contracting any sexually transmitted disease, even if you are using another method of contraception to prevent pregnancy.

Disadvantages

condoms

  • Most men and women can use condoms without any problem . Condoms have no side effects , except for those with allergies to latex . In this case, they should use condoms from another material.
  • Some men and women feel that the condom decreases sensitivity.
  • Others become frustrated because they lose their erection when placing the condom. It is important that the man does not feel pressured to maintain an erection. In any case, if this is a problem, you can also use the female condom.

How to use a condom in 6 steps

With a little practice the condoms are very easy to use. It is important to manipulate them correctly to prevent them from breaking . Keep in mind that certain lubricants can damage the latex condom. Use only water-based lubricants with latex condoms. A damaged condom can be ineffective in preventing pregnancy or STDs. The rest of lubricants can be used with condoms of other materials.
Put on the condom

Each package includes detailed instructions that you must read carefully and check the expiration date before using the condom.


  1.     It is important to place the condom before the penis has any contact with the woman's vagina . Men can have small fluid losses before and after ejaculation. This fluid is enough to transmit an STD and to cause a pregnancy.
  2.     Once the condom is used, it must be discarded , as they are for single use only.
  3.     Be careful when opening the container , as it may damage the condom. Avoid opening it with your teeth or nails. If this happens you should use another one that is not damaged.
  4.     Place the rolled condom on the tip of the erect penis . Leave a space on the tip to collect the semen when the ejaculation is done.
  5.     Begin unwinding the condom over the penis to the base of the penis . Try to eliminate possible air bubbles, as they can cause the condom to break with friction.
  6.     You can lubricate the outside of the condom before inserting it into the woman's vagina.

Practice makes the expert
To learn how to use condoms correctly, it is best practice. Both men and women can use some penis-shaped element (dildo, banana) to practice how to put the condom.

Remove the condom


  •     The penis must leave the vagina before the erection disappears .
  •     Avoid spilling the semen , holding it while the condom is removed.
  •     Knot the condom and throw it away .



If the condom breaks during intercourse, man must be able to realize it. The broken condom should be replaced with a new one . If this happens, you can ask your doctor about emergency contraception , also known as a morning-after pill. With this pill, a possible pregnancy is interrupted, but it does not work to protect against STDs (3). If you are worried about having a sexually transmitted disease, check with your doctor and get a checkup.

Condoms rarely break if they are properly stored and used correctly. It is estimated that latex condoms break only around 0.4%, that is, 4 out of 1000 . And polyurethane breaks 4%, in 4 out of 100. Therefore, couples who use polyurethane condoms have more chances of ruptures (1).

When condoms are broken, it is usually because there was not enough space left for the semen at the tip, because they were expired, exposed to high temperatures or were torn by the teeth or nails.


summarizing
The condom is one of the oldest contraceptive methods, although it was popularized in the mid-nineteenth century and today used by millions of people to prevent pregnancy and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. It is an effective and safe method if used correctly, so it is essential to know how it works and how to place it.