Five tips so that the "condom moment" does not cut the roll
In the psychology consultation of Psychology in Positive it is very frequent to listen to comments in therapy like "when I have to put the condom my erection gets lowered", "I do not like anything to feel the condom, I prefer not to use it" or "it cuts us a lot" the roll the moment I have to put on the condom. "
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And the fact is, living the moment of placing the condom as something negative or a fun obligation can be a risk to sexual health. On the one hand, the condom is the only method to avoid the feared Sexually Transmitted Infections, in addition to avoiding unwanted pregnancies.
On the other hand, if we use it with that attitude nothing positive, our desire and enjoyment will be harmed and sometimes, can lead to sexual difficulties such as lack of desire or erectile dysfunction. Here we share 5 tips so that the " condom moment "do not break the erotic climate and also become one of the couple's favorite games, some inspired by the book" Tu sexo es tuyo ":
1. WE GO FROM EROTIC SHOPPING
It is very common to feel rushed when buying condoms. It is understandable since sexuality is something very intimate. However, the act of buying condoms is a shameful act of responsibility as well as it can be a moment of the most erotic, why not share it? This task has always been reserved for men when a condom is something to use as a couple.
It can be very exciting to choose between the wide variety of condoms that exist today in the market. We can find them in the pharmacy, parapharmacy, erotic shops or through the internet.
The action of choosing the condom together, will make the couple know more about the tastes and needs of each one. In addition, talking about it will help to eroticize the condom and include it as usual in their relationships of pleasure.
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2. IN THE VARIETY IS THE TASTE
In the market there is a growing variety of condoms. These vary in sizes, colors, textures, materials ... and even flavors!
There are strawberry, banana, chocolate, with striae, without stretch marks, latex, latex, fluorescent, thin, with spermicide ... find the one that best suits your needs and try new possibilities.
3. ACCESSIBILITY
Very important not to break the climax, is that the condoms are in a place of easy accessibility and that there is no need to do a "gymkana" to reach them. Or if? An erotic gymkhana to find the condom can be a fun game, in which the participants have to go through exciting tests before one of them reveals the other where the desired key, the condom, is found.
Another good idea is to have an exclusive place to store condoms and other erotic accessories (a nice box, for example).
4. PUT IT ON
The legendary motto of the campaign against AIDS has a lot to do with the erotic game of condoms, because is putting on a condom just one thing? There are several games that we can decide could be useful for that moment to be a pleasure.
When he puts it on, the other member of the couple can nibble on his ears, kiss his testicles or caress his back.
Another modality is to put both together. Thus, while one grasps the base of the penis firmly, the other places the condom on the glans of the penis (the tip) and unrolls both with one hand on top of the other, for example.
It can also be very erotic for the other member of the couple to put the condom with their mouths. But how to put a condom with your mouth? It is not so difficult: Unroll the condom by hand until you feel it is fixed (more or less under the glans), then enter the penis in the mouth and unwind the condom as far as you can. If there is still a part of the penis that remains uncovered, stroke the trunk of the penis with your lips while you lower the rest of the condom with your hand to its base.
5. EROTIC SIMULATION
A very fun game, is to take a banana or a cucumber and simulate with your partner how would you put the condom.
It can be done with your hands while you look at the eyes, it can be done with the mouth and you can even use it later for your erotic games (a double penetration, suck it while making love ...).
If you want to go deeper into sexual techniques , here is a good collection of oriental techniques, highly recommended.